So things are getting pretty stale in the bedroom, answer this questionaire before losing hope and jumping the fence...

Touch is Super Important! I do not think we put enough emphasis on just how important it is, until it is too late. 
Touch is one of the Five Love Languages, the others are Quality time, Acts of Servitude, Gift Giving and Words of Affirmation.
Everyone has a dominant love language, and if you are aware of what your partner's love language is, you already have one of the basic tools that will place you on the road to having a more successful Sex Life, this I promise.


BELOW ARE 32 BASIC QUESTIONS THAT CAN HELP YOU PUT YOUR SEX LIFE IN PERSPECTIVE...
Give these questions some serious thought individually and then come together as a Couple and discuss your answers with each other, with LOVE and OPEN-HEARTED-HONESTY . 


Good luck
Pauline

1. Have you discussed your feelings/concerns with your partner?
2. What are the kind of things that you feel are lacking in your love life?
3. What would you like more of?
4. Can you discuss your Sexual Fantasies openly with each other?
5. Can you talk about Intimacy issues with each other without Blame or Criticism?
6. How comfortable are you in your own body?
7. How do you feel about your partner's body, does it turn you on or off?
8. When last did you achieve an Orgasm together (Cock in Vagina penetration)
9. How often do you Self Pleasure (Masturbate)?
10. How do you feel about being witnessed by your partner while you Self Pleasure?
11. How does your partner feel about you Self Pleasuring?
12. Does your partner Masturbate you?
13. If No, why not?
14. When last did you arrange a "Date Night"?
15. Do you have Financial or Stress Worries(These could contribute to a lack of Sex Drive and willingness to play in the bedroom)
16. What is your partner's #1 Love Language?
17. What is your #1 Love Language?
18. What is your partner's Sexual Fantasy?
19. How often do you Make Love with your partner?
20. How much time is spent on Foreplay?
21. Do you Make Love with the lights on?
22. Does your partner require Clitoral stimulation or Penetration to reach an Orgasm ?
23. Does your partner require the use of Sex Aids to reach Orgasm?
24. Have you considered seeing a Sensual Massage Therapist together for a Couple's Session?
25. Have you considered learning about Tantra or Erotic Massage techniques that you can take back into the bedroom?
26. Is your bedroom a tranquil place that induces feelings of sensuality and romance, or is it scattered with clothes, laptops and other electronic devices?
27. Do either of you have any injuries that may be contributing to your lack of sex drive?
28. Have either of you been sexually abused in any way as children or young adults? 
29. Are either of you on any form of medication?
30. Do you gaze into each other's eyes when making love or do you keep them closed? 
31. How loud do you get during a love making session, or are you silent, are you comfortable enough to let loose and roar during orgasm? 
32. How comfortable are you to talk dirty during a love making session?

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So? How did you fare, do you need to spend more time focusing on your partner's needs or your own? Have you figured out his or her love language? Have you tidied up the bedroom, discussed each other's Secret Fetishes or Fantasies? 
"Making Love with someone you know and trust is the best thing in Life, enjoy it with bliss."